You go out with many people in your life.but how to know when you have really met the one? That one special person you can spend the rest of your life with.the one that will be your best friend, partner and lover?

Well, I can tell you upfront as a matchmaker, its not the easiest thing to find, especially if you are going about it alone on a dating site or through singles events, but even if you have met a great person through a matchmaking service like Perfect 10 Introductions, at the end of the day its only up to two people to decide if there is a true, meaningful connection that will stand the test of time and that is you and the person you are dating.

So how do you tell if the person you are with is the one? Here are some simple steps to find out.

1. From the moment you met them, there was just something about them that made your heart flutter and your head swim. As a matchmaker I call it “chemistry at first sight” or what is more commonly known as “love at first site” despite what die hard realists and pessimists might think, it actually does exist.

2.You can’t think about them with out smiling and if you had the chance, you might just spend all of your free time with her or him.

3. You are at ease with her or him just as much as you might be with a friend you have known for years.

4. When you fight, you fight fair and can always resolve it, and maybe come out stronger then ever.

5. You have the same outlook on life, the same goals the same morals and the same values, and even if you don’t agree on everything you are willing to compromise.

6. This man or woman encourages you to be the best you can be in life, in work and in love, in essence, they are your 24/7 cheerleader.

7. This person is the first you can come to you after you have had a hard day or something stressful happen in your life.

8. This person lets the relationship “go with the flow”, they are not pressuring you into anything, like moving in together or marriage before its really time.

9. This person trusts you and you trust them.

10. You enjoy a physical connection, a heart connection and a connection of the mind.

11. This person is there for you through thick or thin.

12. When you are around this person you don’t have to be anyone but yourself.

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